We all have this love hate relationship with our body. Somedays we are ok with the way we look and some days we want to change possibly everything that pops in our head.
Well I have always been that kind. I have been through ups and downs of loving myself and also at complete disregard to my body. But overtime, I have come to not care about what others think about it. And that, in my opinion is the most valuable lesson I have learnt!
“If you keep eating like this, you might not even fit into that door..just kidding” to “Oh you might just fly off if there is strong wing.” ah, yes, I have heard them both. Don’t believe it?
Me in 2011
You see how my body has changed over time? Well it includes loads and loads of things. State of mind, people, lifestyle, food..and many more!
And this is me from my latest shoot, May 2017
Well clearly, I have changed, may be a little for some of you or maybe a lot for others. But, I have been completely unapologetic about the change you see here.
When I wanted to work on my body, I did and I got awesome results and when I stuffed myself with all the beer and fried food, my body spoke back to me. So who is to complain?
I enjoyed being both. Well there goes a saying right, if you want to look like a queen, feel like a damn queen? Well, that is true. It doesn’t matter how you look for others, it only matters how you see yourselves.
But that doesn’t mean you get into unhealthy lifestyle. Take care of your body like nothing else cause it speaks to you. Listen to what it says and you will be happy with it. Don’t starve. Don’t over do weights. Don’t even think of quitting butter chicken or awesome aloo parathas. But just do it right and burn it out and the days you feel like being a couch potato, be one.
All I am trying to say here in case you are still wondering is, accept your body and fall in love with it each time it changes. Easier said than done.
And if you don’t like the change, work it to change it! Damn right! 😉
Until next time,
Bubbles and Kisses.
P.S: I deleted most pics of me when I hated me being me in them (at that time). Now, I realise what a fool I was. Lost memories along with those photos as well. Sigh.